{mosimage}A psychological analysis about the "molestation case of 2 NRIs in Mumbai on New Year eve" had given a new "observation" that increasing social and financial status / independence of woman is causing jealousy to the men, that's why they involve in more violence against women. To certain extent I agree with this theory. But the difference is not jealosy but a frustration of men against these "todays" woman. If a guy misbehaves, men can catch his collar and argue in the middle of the road. But if a woman does the same, they can easily get away with sympathy. Till recent past I was nice to the girls, but after seeing few girls to be "oversmart" and taking advantage of the guy's such mentality using their sexuality to get things done, I turn blind eye to all girls' advances.
It happened a few weeks back, on a traffic signal, I gave this two wheeler girl a way to move ahead as a courtesy to fairer sex. But that bitch was "prodding" on my friend's vehicle, that he gets intimidated and give her way, by "pushing" his vehicle with her front wheel. I gave her a angry stare and she acted as if she doesn't notice me at all. I understood that this "bitch" tries to be oversmart, I moved ahead, blocked her strategically that she had no other option than waiting for me to move. I deliberately stopped that the whole traffic went ahead of us and she was "held" for 10 extra minutes for she wanted to save those minutes using her "smartness". Fuck off...
Another thing I hate with the girls is that despite seeing a long queue in the theatre / bus stand, these "sluts" walk upto the guy near the counter, give a fake smile and ask shamelessly "Can you please take 2 tickets for me?" If she thinks herself so smart, are those who wait in the queue the fools? I always fight with the ladies who directly walk to the queue to take tickets.
In a bus if a pregnant lady has no seat, a man offers his seat, not a women, unless it is a rare case. The "reserved" ladies seat commuter is indifferent but "unreserved" seater man gives up his seat. As a woman you ask for "seat" reservation, and again you expect men to serve you because you are woman, pregnant. So unfair.
Women claim to be in par with men on anything. If it is true, then take the same platform, slog along with men without demanding any seperate reservations. Don't stoop low by using your sexuality/gender/tears/smile as extra force to get things done. Certainly we the men don't respect women who do such things.