அது எனது பொறியியல் கல்லூரியின் கடைசி காலம்.. அப்போது ஒரு நண்பன் மீது உயிராக இருந்தேன். ஆனால் சில காரணங்களுக்காக அவனும் நானும் பேசிக்கொள்ளாமல் இருந்தோம். அவன் வேறொரு நண்பனோடு நெருக்கமாக, அவர்களை ஒன்றாக தினமும் வகுப்பில் காணவேண்டிய நிலைமை. இந்த வருடம் எப்போது முடியும் என்று தினமும் கடனேயென கழித்துக்கொண்டிருந்தபோது கல்லூரியில் ஒரு சொற்பொழிவுக்கு ஏற்பாடு செய்திருந்தார்கள். அது முக்கியமாக கம்ப்யூட்டர் மாணவர்களுக்கு. ஆனால் அன்று நிறையபேர் மட்டம் போட்டுவிட்டதால் இடத்தை நிரப்ப எங்கள் வகுப்பிலிருந்து அழைத்துப்போய் அங்கே இருக்கைகளை நிரப்பிக்கொண்டிருந்தார்கள். சொற்பொழிவின் முடிவில் யாரேனும் கேள்விகள் இருந்தால் கேட்கலாம் என்று சொன்னார் அந்த பேச்சாளர்.

It happened once again.. another girl from my family circle had asked her parents to look for an USA based groom. Similar thing happened few years ago in my circle and unfortunately that girl is still waiting for a groom now... from anywhere. Everyone has a right to have expectations about their life partner but I feel that having this US as a priority in choosing a life partner is a wrong criteria. I can't understand why still in 2016 people think "USA" is some heaven and fall for the grooms there. If the girls feel that USA is a dream destination for them, why can't they try to reach there by their own efforts - either via studies or get a project based there. Instead why select a guy based there just to reach USA? Is the groom supposed to be a "immigration personnel" or a life partner who should stand together in all the phases of life?

Being someone interested in relationships and psychology, this is one that caught my attention last week. What puts off the partners in a relationship? No relationships is perfect and whomever claims that theirs is flawless, is definitely faking it. And no relation fails on a day. The partners are put off in some ways, slowly the pressure builds up and finally it explodes in a day. When finally the relationship is over and people look back, the reason of the initial hatred will be very hazy. That's when people will start saying that the relationship broke on flimsy grounds.

May 20th - blessed date of my life... Angels always doesn't come flying from sky. Sometimes they come via Gtalk. 6 years ago a wonderful human being came into my life as a friend this day and many times I had felt overwhelmed by his unconditional love and care towards me. He babied me, stood by me in the troubled times and still a support system for me. It is quite unfortunate that my dreams of living closer to him went bust yet I cherish those few months I lived under his care.. E.g He randomly ask me to extend my hand and scratch the back of my palm to check whether I had applied moisturizing cream which he advises to apply during cold. I loved those moments like the kid standing in front of a mother. Yes... it is my dearest friend and super soul Vijayakrishnan Ramadevan who walked into my life this day 6 years ago... Thank you Meera Ramachandran.

We have heard of the term "Abusive relationship" often in the psychological blogs or when the celebrities breakup. But who defines the "abusive relationship"? Do a relationship be termed only when there is physical violence or material loss involved? Does a third party involvement need to term a relationship as "abusive"? Like success, failure, rich, poor, this is also a subjective term. But a simple logic chosen to define anything as abusive is "that hurts the sentiment, self respective or physique of an individual". Going by this logic breaking the trust of a partner is also an abusive action.